How many times have you taken a girl out or spent time with her only to have her reject you or not show much interest? Sometimes you'll find her with someone else who doesn't treat her nearly as well as you do. It's frustrating when this happens and here are some of the reasons why:
Firstly, you need to understand that you don't have to buy her affection. She is not going to like you more because you buy her flowers or gifts. They may accentuate her feelings once she is already attracted to you, but buying her gifts before she feels that way tells her two things.
- That you don't have enough going for you to make her like you so you will try and buy her attention with gifts. She will think you are overcompensating for your insecurity.
- And secondly there is a possibility she will think you are trying to manipulate the situation and this will not impress her.
Another temptation guys have is that they will want to share how they feel too early on in the relationship. This can even happen within the first few times of meeting a girl. We think that if we let her know how we feel she will like us back. The fact is, telling her how we feel is not going to change the way she feels about us.
Attractive women get asked out all the time by men and know what to expect. It's no good just adding yourself to the list. You don't want to signal to her that you are just like everybody else. So relax, there are other ways to let her know you are interested.
Understanding how attraction works is the key to being able to seduce women. After years of getting this wrong, I have found out that attraction for women is generally not based on looks. While knowing this intellectually, I still didn't act like it. What I mean is that while I knew attraction wasn't the only thing in a relationship, I didn't work on my personality and social skills to be somebody women are attracted to.
Women are more attracted to qualities of a mans character, his communication skills and the way he makes her feel, and not on looks alone.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
HOW TO GET THE GIRL YOU LIKE
There are many reasons why men fail to attract women. Some of these are more vital than others. These common mistakes men make will really turn a woman off, so don't get caught out doing these three things:
1) Trying to be 'Mr. Nice Guy'. When guys are around a girl they like they immediately change their character. Many of them turn into a nice guy who will do anything for anyone. The problem is women never seem to be attracted to nice guys.
Have you noticed that your female friends never seem to be romantically interested in you? That is because women do not choose who to date based on whether someone is nice or not. It certainly plays a part, but women need to feel a deeper level of attraction.
2) What do you do when you meet a girl you really like but she doesn't seem to be interested in you? Most guys will try harder to get her attention. They will try to persuade her to like them.
Trying to convince a girl to like you at an intellectual level will never change the way she feels about you emotionally. This is an important point to note, because no amount of reasoning with her or chasing her will change her mind. Once you realize this and stop begging her to like you, you can start working on methods that will help her fell an attraction to you.
3) The third critical mistake men make follows along the same lines as the two above. It involves trying to get her approval or not doing anything without her permission. In an effort to please women, men don't want to make mistakes so they look for a woman's approval. You will never be successful if you go about trying to attract women in this way.
Women actually get annoyed at men who try to get their approval. They come across and having no self respect, weak willed and desperate. Make sure you don't fall into this category
1) Trying to be 'Mr. Nice Guy'. When guys are around a girl they like they immediately change their character. Many of them turn into a nice guy who will do anything for anyone. The problem is women never seem to be attracted to nice guys.
Have you noticed that your female friends never seem to be romantically interested in you? That is because women do not choose who to date based on whether someone is nice or not. It certainly plays a part, but women need to feel a deeper level of attraction.
2) What do you do when you meet a girl you really like but she doesn't seem to be interested in you? Most guys will try harder to get her attention. They will try to persuade her to like them.
Trying to convince a girl to like you at an intellectual level will never change the way she feels about you emotionally. This is an important point to note, because no amount of reasoning with her or chasing her will change her mind. Once you realize this and stop begging her to like you, you can start working on methods that will help her fell an attraction to you.
3) The third critical mistake men make follows along the same lines as the two above. It involves trying to get her approval or not doing anything without her permission. In an effort to please women, men don't want to make mistakes so they look for a woman's approval. You will never be successful if you go about trying to attract women in this way.
Women actually get annoyed at men who try to get their approval. They come across and having no self respect, weak willed and desperate. Make sure you don't fall into this category
HOW CAN I TELL IF MY BOYFRIEND IS RIGTH FOR ME
THE TWO TRICKS THAT SHOULD BE IN YOUR ARSENAL:
It's really uneasy when you spend sleepless nights after having a great time with the man that you're with. BUT for some reason, you think that something is 'off'...something in the relationship isn't right.
A lot of women are stuck in the same problem just like you.
Other women's relationships turn out to be with the man that's right for them. BUT the less fortunate ones found themselves in a stinging heartbreak after finding out that the boyfriend they're with for a long time now isn't their Mr. Right.
You sure don't want to carry that risk.
Heck! It only takes one painful break up to change your life for the worse for the years to come. Believe me, you don't want this to be a guessing game and you want to know how can I tell if my boyfriend is right for me.
This is where these 2 neat tricks that acts like a guided-missile...pinpointing if the man you're with is the right one for you come into play.
Read and apply these tricks...you'll need them.
How Can I Tell If My Boyfriend Is Right For Me Trick 1: Trust your gut feelings and instinct.
If you're head over heels about the guy and the 2 of you are always having a GREAT time together...BUT for some reason, at the back your head you think that he doesn't feel the same way, chances are something's wrong.
Be straightforward and ask him about how he feels for you...and if he'll be ready to commit when the right time comes.
If he evades that question or shoves it to the side, you better find someone else.
Otherwise, you'll spend the days with him with a seed of doubt about his feelings growing everyday. You don't want a relationship that's filled of doubts and suspicion.
How Can I Tell If My Boyfriend Is Right For Me Trick 2: Communicate properly.
And by that, I mean you should know when to talk and when to listen. Simple everyday conversations with your boyfriend should lead to insights about how he will behave and act when you're together as a married couple.
If at this stage he begins to show facets of his personality that's unacceptable to you, you may want to rethink seriously about your relationship with him.
Would you love to have a man in your life who is fully committed to you, a man who treats you special, gives you comfort and security... and simply asks you how your day was?
Would you like to learn how to captivate a man with your sharp wits and your kind heart... and never have to worry about just being wanted for sex again?
If you answered, "YES" to any of these questions, I have some exciting news for you...
I've discovered what I like to think of as a "man manual" that literally ANY woman can use to
It's really uneasy when you spend sleepless nights after having a great time with the man that you're with. BUT for some reason, you think that something is 'off'...something in the relationship isn't right.
A lot of women are stuck in the same problem just like you.
Other women's relationships turn out to be with the man that's right for them. BUT the less fortunate ones found themselves in a stinging heartbreak after finding out that the boyfriend they're with for a long time now isn't their Mr. Right.
You sure don't want to carry that risk.
Heck! It only takes one painful break up to change your life for the worse for the years to come. Believe me, you don't want this to be a guessing game and you want to know how can I tell if my boyfriend is right for me.
This is where these 2 neat tricks that acts like a guided-missile...pinpointing if the man you're with is the right one for you come into play.
Read and apply these tricks...you'll need them.
How Can I Tell If My Boyfriend Is Right For Me Trick 1: Trust your gut feelings and instinct.
If you're head over heels about the guy and the 2 of you are always having a GREAT time together...BUT for some reason, at the back your head you think that he doesn't feel the same way, chances are something's wrong.
Be straightforward and ask him about how he feels for you...and if he'll be ready to commit when the right time comes.
If he evades that question or shoves it to the side, you better find someone else.
Otherwise, you'll spend the days with him with a seed of doubt about his feelings growing everyday. You don't want a relationship that's filled of doubts and suspicion.
How Can I Tell If My Boyfriend Is Right For Me Trick 2: Communicate properly.
And by that, I mean you should know when to talk and when to listen. Simple everyday conversations with your boyfriend should lead to insights about how he will behave and act when you're together as a married couple.
If at this stage he begins to show facets of his personality that's unacceptable to you, you may want to rethink seriously about your relationship with him.
Would you love to have a man in your life who is fully committed to you, a man who treats you special, gives you comfort and security... and simply asks you how your day was?
Would you like to learn how to captivate a man with your sharp wits and your kind heart... and never have to worry about just being wanted for sex again?
If you answered, "YES" to any of these questions, I have some exciting news for you...
I've discovered what I like to think of as a "man manual" that literally ANY woman can use to
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