How many times have you taken a girl out or spent time with her only to have her reject you or not show much interest? Sometimes you'll find her with someone else who doesn't treat her nearly as well as you do. It's frustrating when this happens and here are some of the reasons why:
Firstly, you need to understand that you don't have to buy her affection. She is not going to like you more because you buy her flowers or gifts. They may accentuate her feelings once she is already attracted to you, but buying her gifts before she feels that way tells her two things.
- That you don't have enough going for you to make her like you so you will try and buy her attention with gifts. She will think you are overcompensating for your insecurity.
- And secondly there is a possibility she will think you are trying to manipulate the situation and this will not impress her.
Another temptation guys have is that they will want to share how they feel too early on in the relationship. This can even happen within the first few times of meeting a girl. We think that if we let her know how we feel she will like us back. The fact is, telling her how we feel is not going to change the way she feels about us.
Attractive women get asked out all the time by men and know what to expect. It's no good just adding yourself to the list. You don't want to signal to her that you are just like everybody else. So relax, there are other ways to let her know you are interested.
Understanding how attraction works is the key to being able to seduce women. After years of getting this wrong, I have found out that attraction for women is generally not based on looks. While knowing this intellectually, I still didn't act like it. What I mean is that while I knew attraction wasn't the only thing in a relationship, I didn't work on my personality and social skills to be somebody women are attracted to.
Women are more attracted to qualities of a mans character, his communication skills and the way he makes her feel, and not on looks alone.
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